We talked to the doctors yesterday and got a treatment schedule set up for Dylan. It entails a lot of details so to cut to the chase....we will do chemotherapy once a month for a year. He will have an MRI of the tumor done every third treatment to see how things are going.
Basically this is a chronic illness (like diabetes is) and we will deal with this for his entire life. Chemotherapy will become our friend just like all of his doctors are becoming. We feel like we are getting a crash course in the Medical field. There is so much that we are learning and so much ahead in store.
Through all of this we are continuing to try to live a normal life...is that possible? We feel so blessed to have so many family members and friends taking care of us. Your phone calls, emails, and prayers are really keeping us strong. We know that with the Lord anything is possible and it is with his blessings that we are making it through. The road ahead is a bumpy one but we are going to make it through.
Dylan is a happy baby whose smile seriously lights up a room. Connor boy is doing well. He is learning to sleep in beds that are not his and on floors that are not home. He is a trooper. He is so happy. After a long day with the doctors it is always so nice to see his smiling face running around. The boys really do keep Paul and I going. Our bishop said in ward conference a few weeks ago that "Sometimes the world is too much." I have to agree. Sometimes the world is too much and it seems that too many trials and heartache are thrown our way. What I do know is that even though sometimes the world is too much....our Heavenly Father is always there helping us along. We feel is love and know that he is with our family. I have to keep reminding myself that we are not given trials that we cannot handle. It is with pure faith in our Heavenly Father that we will make it through. We. Will. Make. It. Through.
Treatment starts next week. Wish us luck. Go Dylan Go!!!!
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Tara!
I can't believe what you are having to go through. It just breaks my heart reading about it. I could only imagine what you are feeling. My little guy is Dylans same age and i really couldn't imagine. I thought my one night at PCMC was horrible, but your's is so much worse. I am glad that things are looking good though and if you need anything, we can even take Conner for a while. You are so in my prayers and I totally feel for you.
Thanks for the update girl!! I will call you soon to set up lunch.. You, me Traci.. It's needed don't you agree! I love ya. Go DYLAN!!
Dylan is a tough little guy. He is Grants grandson, he should be a subborn little thing. Your boys are such troopers. You and Paul are the one and only Super Mom and Dad! I don't know who is better parents than you. We love you and hope to see you soon!
Tara,
You guys are great and really strong! I so agree with your post the lord will be with you as long as you let him! Your in my prayers and wish you guys the best! Kelli
You guys are amazing! I hope I can handle the trials that are sure to come with as much faith as you guys. Love you. You are in our prayers constantly.
Sounds like you have alot ahead of you still but the important thing is you are already on the right path! I think it is so great how positive and humbled you guys have been through this whole thing (atleast by what I have read), you guys are so strong and Heavenly Father is aware of what you are going through and is on your side. WE ARE ROOTING FOR YA DYLAN. Love you guys!!
I have been reading all of your updates and couldn't seem to find the right words to comment...just know you and your family are always on my mind and in mine and my family's prayers. I can't even begin to comprehend what you and your family are going through. I know you already have a great support team but let me know if you ever need anything. Love ya tons! GO DYLAN!!!
It brakes my heart when little ones are put through struggles like this...you are right the only way through this is with the help from Heavenly Father to comfort you because nobody else knows how it is. Our family will be praying for your family. I hope next week goes ok...if you need anywhere to drop Conner off he is welcome at my house. Seeing how strong you guys are gives me even a stronger testimony! You guys are so great Good luck next week:)
wow tara. you have a lot on your plate right now. your courage and faith is amazing to me. i have been thinking of you guys and hope only the best for your little guy. aren't you so thankful for the gospel during times like this? how do people even make it through life without it? its easy to see that you understand that despite trials,we are so blessed. love ya
Paul and Tara you are in our thoughts and prayers! You have blessed with such a great support team to help you through this difficult time. Continue to lean on the Lord for strength. Go Dylan - we are rooting for you!
Paul and Tara,
I found your blog through Brady and Jill's, I hope you don't mind me commenting (and I hope you remember who we are from our awesome cabin trips together). Brady told us about your sweet little Dylan and the problems he was having. I just wanted to let you know we're thinking of you and praying for your family. I'll put your names on the temple prayer roll the next time we're there.
Love, Bruce & Christy Yost
Just wanted to tell you guys that I love you tons and will continue to pray for you and your sweet boys. I so loved having you over and look forward to more visits. Please know you are so welcome here anytime!!! You are wonderful parents and I admire your strength and faith..
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